Grace made a platter of sliced vegetables for Suki's dinner... she wanted her to eat them but not take them from the platter. It was difficult.
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Grace was planning on running errands with David to the barber, the grocery and the bank after lunch. Out of the clear blue sky she announced that she wanted to get her hair cut too. David and I have always felt strongly that our girls should know they have control of their own bodies from a very early age and they've known they could have their hair cut or their ears pierced or whatever but that the choice would be theirs, not ours. Still, it came as a shock to hear such a distinct, persistent request all of a sudden. She'd never mentioned it before but she certainly wanted it today. David's stylist had free time after his appointment so we booked her appointment.
There was something intensely bittersweet about this last time combing through a lifetime's worth of hair. it might sound silly but perhaps less so if you consider how sensitive I can be to "last time" situations.
Phan's been cutting David's hair for years and has heard all about our girls. This was her first time meeting Grace but she already knew that Grace loved lollipops. She told Grace that she could have one while her hair was being cut -and- one after and Grace was very happy to hear this.
There was considerable discussion between Phan and Grace. At first she was describing a sort of crew cut but when Phan and David showed her exactly how short her hair would be she modified her idea and asked for a chin length bob. It's kind of a shame, because I would have paid top dollar to see the look on Granny's face if Grace showed up with a crew cut.
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